Look, I have had only 1 guy break up with me...the first one I ever dated and that was for a 7yr period. He was a big loser. Well, they all were, or I wouldnt have left! LOL No really, here is the deal...I have friends that are DYING to meet a guy. What do they do? Go to work, work out, go to a club. OKAYYYY......and? I have invited many of my single friends to marketing events, chamber events, strictly business events, Biz seminars, knitting groups, grand openings of golf course country club events and I get SHUT DOWN every time. Why would I want to go there? I dont golf? My business has to do with women. I dont want to join the chamber. I dont knit and how do I meet a guy at a knitting group? HELLO!!!
Almost all people that attend marketing or business related events are men and guess what? THEY OWN THEIR OWN BUSINESS! Usually I am one of maybe at the most 5 girls in an entire room. REALLY! Of course I come with my BF, so the other 2-4 ladies in the room are swarmed with questions about their business and getting business cards left and right. Why go to a golf course opening? CAUSE MOST GOLFERS ARE MEN! Why go to a knitting group? Cause most of the women their have single sons or grandsons that they are ALWAYS trying to hook up! REALLY! My knitting group earned me 6 dates with a lawyer, banker, med school student and a few other guys, but it was a great time! It could have been a match!
Listen ladies, we arent getting any younger and the dating pool is getting bigger. If you really want to meet someone, jump at every opportunity or invitation to meet a new person that is not part of your normal routine! This is the way you meet a guy, especially if you dont want to do the bar routine. Good luck this week. Get out of your comfort zone and make it your priority to go somewhere different, new and not with a pack of girls. Make your entrance memorable!
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I'm not too interested in the bar scene myself... And yes it' hard to meet someone interesting.
But although not very lucky so far (I've had a few relationships that petered out) I still think that the best place to meet a guy is somewhere where you're liable to meet someone who shares your interests.
For instance, if you're interested in business, than chambers seem a good idea, if in literature, maybe reading groups?
Otherwise you meet people who have nothing in common with you and it can be hard to come up with an interesting conversation, not to say relationship.
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